“MY HEALTHIER MARRIAGE COACHING PROGRAM”
The communication in your marriage has become strained. You’ve begun to clam up; then your wife continues to call you a passive aggressive husband. You are hoping that your approach will send her the message that you need peace and quiet, but it is not working because discussions are escalating into fights. In short: You love your wife, but secretly you feel hopeless because she’s threatening to leave you. It’s a vicious cycle perpetuated by her feeling isolated and protesting loudly, provoked by your silence, which prompts you naturally to take refuge in more silence. Meanwhile, your relationship continues in a downward spiral.
The “MY HEALTHIER MARRIAGE COACHING PROGRAM” is our revolutionary system comprised of components that will change your marital relationship forever. In it, we teach you how to identify and change behaviors produced by an old childhood attachment that simply isn’t working. After applying our proven program you will know how to best approach your wife, how to solve differences between you, and how to express your needs so they are heard and acted on as part of the marriage deal. Our program was developed by a team of relationship experts, (Neil Warner and Nora Femenia) and has been perfected over the course of 6 years. It has changed already the lives of hundreds of people and played a part in healing countless relationships, providing them with the right approach and the right tools to produce positive change.
YOU WILL DISCOVER HOW TO:
- Breach the silence and open conversations;
- Understand what you need to do to stop your wife’s despair and anger spiral;
- Manage strong destructive emotions like anger and contempt;
- Be able to express your personal needs and be listened to;
- Establish a base of reciprocal trust and respect
WHAT THIS PROGRAM IS ABOUT:
When you immerse yourself in this pioneering program, you’ll begin walking on a structured path that will ultimately result in understanding the origins of your passive aggressive behaviors, learn and use better communication skills here and now with your wife, feel more comfortable expressing your true feelings, and enjoying your relationships more than ever before.
WHAT A FORMER CLIENT SAYS: “I have spent all my adult life trying to deny my childhood damage…nobody told me that I’m behaving now using the same defenses I had when I was 5 years old. When we had a fight, I usually went into “what I’m doing here…” thinking. I didn’t discuss, disagree, or explain my position to her…It was easy to listen and then go away and do whatever I thought was best for me… All those past years, I have been in my “self-protective mode” instead of being in a shared perspective of committed relationship…Never really knew what being married entails! This program taught me several basic things about being with other person that I never learned before… And, what is the point of defending myself from her? She is not my parents..”David Aldrich
Coach Nora’s Experiences
Nora’s former practice as a family therapist dealing with all kinds of conflict topics, and as instructor in conflict resolution and family mediation provided her with a collection of rich strategies useful to coach individuals needing to rescue their marriages. She can give you powerful perspectives for understanding your marital situation, focusing both on identifying your needs, her needs and taking action to restore your marriage. We all have needs to express, but the rules about how much we say, when we say it, if we ask or demand our partner for solutions and if we have the right to say something or instead we should expect the other to guess what’s in our mind are always changing. This is the core of the most common conflict. If it’s risky to say anything very direct…some men try to navigate this challenge by following the old saying: “in doubt, say nothing.” And they enter a dangerous territory called passive aggression in marriage, because silence hurts even more than fighting!
WHO CAN BENEFIT FROM THIS PROGRAM?
Nora works primarily with men who are at a crossroads in their marriage. Communication with their spouse has failed. At the same time, his wife is pressing him about an issue that she feels needs prompt resolution. She pressures and prods him to accept and change what she calls “ his passive aggression, “ only to cause him to feel accused, shut down and shut her out. Behavior on both sides keeps escalating into rejection and contempt, and the union is slowly dying. Can you recognize this interaction? If left to repeat by itself, it produces a passive aggressive marriage fast:
- Male person clams up, wishing the other would do the same and let him have dinner
- the female despairs of having a needed conversation, and claims, yells and cries
- male person clams up a bit more to “keep the peace” and leaves the place
- the abandoned female cries more, pursues him and big drama happens
- husband now has to contend with being accused of doing passive aggression
- the talk about getting a divorce if no changes appear is constant.
Coach Nora uses a new approach, based on attachment theory, allowing the husband to understand how his own past communication models are recreated here and now in the present relationship, automatically. He needs to be provided with new, secure attachment models that allow him to heal the communication breach.
HOW WILL YOU BENEFIT FROM THE HEALTHIER MARRIAGE COACHING PROGRAM?
YOU ARE AN IDEAL CANDIDATE IF YOU NEED STRATEGY AND SUPPORT FOR:
- Doing away with angry verbal interactions at home.
- Strengthen your ability to express your needs.
- Learning the right questions to get your partner engaged.
- Navigating common conflicts with ease and peace of mind.
HOW OUR WORK TOGETHER AT THE HEALTHIER MARRIAGE COACHING PROGRAM WILL LOOK LIKE
(OVER A 6 MONTH PROGRAM)
With this original program, you don’t just get Neil Warner’s books and self-study materials. I will work directly with you, one-on-one, using the phone or Skype, to illuminate the core concepts of the program, apply them to your own solutions, and help you permanently change your life and relationship for the better. In the first 50-minute coaching session, together we’ll…
- Complete a self-assessment of your communication style.
- Identify the origins of your mental models and current beliefs.
- Ask questions to link your current beliefs and defenses to past experiences
- Watch how old emotions create problems now and learn positive tactics to correct them.
Your coaching sessions will be pressure free, relaxed and informative, with tasks of self-reflection to follow up. Many clients find that the first coaching session provides them with such a panoramic vision of their relationship dynamics that allows them to shift to a perspective they’ve never had before. The following sessions will be supported by immediate answers to your question, short phone calls or messaging by What Sapp, so you will receive the necessary coaching just in time.
THE COACHING PACKAGE INCLUDES:
Twice a month 50’ session where we will map your conflict, design a game plan, then list the steps necessary for you to do, and what results to expect. You will have to do your homework and compile questions for the next phone session.
The Book: “Eliminating Passive Aggression: How to stop your wife’s complains and get your relationship working again, in 4 easy steps”
This book explores how passive aggression starts as a useful defense mechanism and how you can correct it.
The book contains practical applications of each concept, easy to read and understand. No psychology classes or dictionaries are required! It is your guide to understanding and changing your communication style from passive aggressive to a healthier form that will benefit both you and your wife. Among other valuable skills, the book will give you…
- Lessons to teach you how to stop the ‘silent treatment’ and other destructive habits
- Personal and practical guidance to improve your insecure attachment TODAY
- Exercises that measure your progress and help you sharpen your new skills
The Workbook: “The Essential Workbook to Eliminating Passive Aggression”
To maximize your benefits from the book, you will also receive the companion manual. Use this powerful tool at the end of each book chapter to further reinforce key concepts and apply what you’ve learned to your own situations. The exercises in the workbook show you how the book’s lessons apply to everyday life.
Use the workbook to gain valuable insight about past experiences and understand how those experiences have shaped the way you think in the present. For certain exercises (discovering the roots of hidden anger and discovering the past anger targets, for example), you will be personally guided by your coach. They will provide you with specific insights about your situation based on many of the answers and scenarios you create in your workbook.
YOU WILL RECEIVE THE EXTRA HELP MANUAL:
“Healing Words To Communicate Safely With Your Wife” That teaches you:
- how to solve uncomfortable silent moments,
- keep a conversation going,
- and use the right words and phrases to connect emotionally with women.
Get Coaching. Get Results.
Ready to take the next steps? Schedule your FREE Introductory 30-minute strategic session today!
What Our Customers Are Saying
Don’t just take it from us, let our customers do the talking!
“I’m an artist at making my wife crazy!” I got to take the test using an invented name…when I got the responses, I was shocked at the profile of my own behaviors described there…What I’ve told myself that were protective behaviors, like not telling her about my work difficulties, ended up being a huge problem when she discovered that I almost lost the only income we have. The worst aspect is my automatic tendency to block whatever she proposes… I know how she is expecting me to behave, and when I find this expectation, immediately do the opposite. My reaction is so fast that I haven’t observed it before…I covered it up thinking that it was constructive opposition, but she calls this attitude of mine “sabotage.” The truth is that when I come up with something different to create a fight, we don’t get to finish any of the home projects waiting for us. NOW, when I know what needs to be done and still wish to retreat and be alone, and let her work by herself…I see this attitude as real marital sabotage, and remind myself that this option is no longer a choice for me. And it makes such a difference! I can tell Nina about my temptation to frustrate her, and she tells me about how well we both will feel when we have finished painting the bedroom, and I feel motivated to help us both.”Robert White
NOW, YOU HAVE IN YOUR HANDS THE BEST TOOLS TO IMPROVE TRUST, COMMUNICATION AND LOVE IN YOUR MARRIAGE….
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